Invite your non-Christian friends along to events which won’t make them feel uncomfortable or threatened. Have social events which reflect your joy in the Gospel and your unity in Christ. - concerts, dances, coffee mornings, lunches, themed evenings and meals, treasure hunts, activity days, challenges, BBQs, informal worship on the beach, sandcastle competitions. This will help you build up good relationships within the church too. A church which feels united and happy and special - and values its identity - is a church which people will be attracted to.